The Language of Lust

Before you start learning about seduction techniques, using this awesome book The Language of Lust, I would like to share a couple of tips that will make any girl want you day and night.

The color

Studies conducted in different countries have shown that when women see men on a red background or red clothes, they seem sexier to them. The researchers found that red color for women is associated with power and high social status. Wear red clothes – it is desirable to wear a red color closer to the face. It will draw attention to your person. The main thing – do not overdo it.

The smile

Women who are looking for a serious relationship, pay more attention to the friendly guys. The researchers argue that a smiling face says to the woman that you are always ready to help and to make a commitment. On the other hand, female, light adventure seekers, pay attention to the sad and mysterious men.

However, both types agree on one thing: good teeth – is the important thing. If you are looking for a serious relationship, smile and send signals to the women. Professional teeth cleaning or teeth whitening is a plus.

Direct/Indirect tactics

Your level of attractiveness, as it turned out, determines the way in which women choose to interact with you. Women are expecting and favorably assess to an attractive man, who uses tactics, clarifying their intentions: they make a good impression, showing off and openly flirting.

When a man is less attractive in a physical sense, women prefer him to use indirect tactics: showing himself as a sweet person. For the beginning pay attention to your appearance: change your wardrobe, join the gym, trim on time.

If you will look good, they will approve the direct tactics – so, you will need to build strategies for easier and less strain. If you are attractive and at the same time modest you should build confidence. Less attractive guys who have not had relations for a long time should think: maybe they are too directly demonstrate their intentions?

And regardless of the level of attractiveness, it is necessary to be flexible and be able to switch between these two tactics.

Chin line

When women ovulate, they want sex and look for the most suitable sex object. At this time, they look for dudes with the well-developed jowl. The science proved this! According to studies, clearly defined jowl indicates masculinity and a higher level of testosterone, and hence genetics at the guy we need. Interestingly, in the remaining phase of the cycle women are not particularly interested in men’s chin.

If you are looking for a random erotic adventure, then a successful combination of suitable clothes, accessories and hairstyles can create the illusion of a volitional chin. V-neck, angular glasses – and now you are a dude with a prominent chin.

Sense of humor

We somehow do not particularly care are the woman’s jokes funny or not, but with us, it is the opposite thing. It is important that you seemed funny to her. If she laughs at your jokes, you will like her, including as a sexual object. To women, witty guys seem more intelligent and confident.

If a woman does not laugh at your joke, there’s a chance that you simply do not like her and convince her otherwise not worth it. You might spend some time to explain her joke, or just can find the girl who understands how funny is what you said.


Research says that when women make a list of things and write on what they pay attention when they are choosing the men (for short and long relations), there is always a point relating to the body constitution – especially the upper part of the body.

Especially, they are interested in your muscular arms and broad shoulders. Join to the gym, start lifting a weight and tighten your body. When you go out to hunt wear a tight-fitting T-shirt with V-neck to focus on your biceps.

Open pose

Women more like when a man takes the open, not closed poses. Men like to take up more space, legs wide apart, when they sit, making broad gestures and putting his hands on the belt – and so they seem to be more attractive to women. Moreover, such poses talk about your strength, dominance, and that you do not mind to make physical contact with others.

If you’re going to touch other men (for example, the first extend a hand when greeting, putting your hand on the shoulder of another dude), it will show that you are a more dominant individual. Learn how to make a non-verbal communication.

Pay attention to what poses you take more often. If you notice that you love to cross your hands, cut it, put one hand on the armrest of your chair – it is much better.

The proportion of the width of the shoulders, waist and hips

Yes, mathematics also has a relation to sex. Especially – proportions. The most attractive for men is women whose waist-to-hip proportion is about 0.7, and women also have their own preferences. Women like waist-to-hip proportion between 0.85 – 0.95. 0.9 – is the most favorable proportion.

Even women like when the shoulders are wider than the waist (the wider the better).Lift weights to develop the upper body, especially the shoulders, biceps, and back. Cardio will help you to narrow the waist. Clothes – jackets and similar clothing that making your shoulders look bigger will help you.


Finally, science has established proportions that are considered ideal for heterosexual couples in terms of growth. The scientist showed a woman picture representing a man standing nearby and a woman, and most of them like when a man was 1.09 times higher than women.

This means that you should be about 10-12 cm taller than she if she loves shoes without heels, and even higher if she is a fan of heels and other women’s stuff. No slouch, stand straight – it visually increases growth. In addition, some clothes can also add a couple of centimeters – for example, narrow straight trousers.


Everybody knows: in many ways, women define is man good for her by the smell. Over the past 20 years, science has thoroughly studied this and found that women are looking for a man whose smell is different from their own. In fact, this is a better chance to get strong and healthy posterity.

A healthy diet will improve your natural odor, the cologne will finish the job. Choose a fragrance very carefully and make sure they are visible, but not so much that women start watering her eyes.

By taking at least a few interesting tips from this list, as well as armed with the knowledge of Lawrence’s guide, you can do it with any girl.

The Language of Lust by Lawrence Lanoff

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