It’s always painful to separate, but if you are abandoned, then more self-esteem is added to a low self-esteem. And how here, it is asked, to become the winner? And is it possible in general? Maybe! The main thing here, as in any situation, is not to do any stupid things. And the book “Manifest Your Ex Back” by Amanda Walters will help you in this. A wonderful guide that will bring your thoughts in order and will allow you to bring your loved one back to your arms. Of course, the situations are different and it is possible that he acted with you horribly, leaving you behind. But in any case you should not interfere with it. If he calmly said that he wants to leave, then you need to understand that he is no longer happy with you, and will not be, once it has reached this conversation.
If he brazenly threw you or left “in English,” holding a girl under the pen from a parallel class, then, especially, returning him will be stupid and even more humiliating than being abandoned. Believe me, with the time your life will improve, but how you survive this first and most difficult moment, depends on your self-awareness in the future, and, in the end, imagine how unpleasant it will be now, when he sees that you do not care anymore. You want to ask him the question: “why?”. You’ll see, if he answers this question, it’s probably dishonest or his answer will not be pleasant to you. And, in the end, you yourself can guess – why it happened. It’s another matter if you need your answer to work on yourself, but we know that you are simply looking for an excuse to regret yourself or to depict the victim in his eyes. Come on, stop it! All will be adjusted with time.