With your look, you have attracted the attention of the opposite sex, and finally, hurray, an acquaintance took place. But here’s were the pitfalls appear. You start to communicate and if he/she appears uninteresting, boring conversationalist, the acquaintance can end quickly, not to mention the fact that your relationship will never go into love. For the development of relations necessarily download the book ‘Conversation Chemistry‘ written by Mirabelle Summers and Amy Waterman. This guide in PDF format shows you how to properly communicate with the opposite sex.
Through this e-book, you will become more attractive to your interlocutor. So feel free to swing this guide, if your weak side is communication. As a rule, exactly the first impression depends on how it will be developed and will it lead to any result. If during the first meeting, you managed to make a person be interested, he will for sure want to continue. At the same time, dating cannot rely only on good looks and a stunning outfit. The successful introduction will help you to create an image of an interesting and attractive person.
A good first impression is the beginning of the development of communication, which is gradually moving into the second stage of dating, when you start to learn more about each other – about the personal qualities, enthusiasm, inner world. Stiffness at first acquaintance is a natural thing, but you want to get rid of it. Due to the fact that you are not familiar with each other, you have almost no topics of conversation.
You can tell that by nature you’re shy. I am objecting. In fact, you just do not have a clear algorithm of behavior during dating. The fear of making a wrong move, being ridiculed or misunderstood creates thousands of complexes in both sexes. The purpose of dating for women, in any case, should not be a marriage, and for men — not dragging a woman into bed. This is not a call to abandon your intentions, this is just a warning to be prudent and not to rush things.
Every new friend should be regarded primarily as a friend (girlfriend) or acquittance (friend of). So, just get acquainted, and time will tell what will happen from your relationship. Getting acquainted, a woman always is assessing – whether he is good enough to be my husband (boyfriend, lover). Exactly with this criterion, she starts to communicate.
If her reasoning is good, she tries to show herself in the best light, and as a result, is constrained because begins to be cautious in everything – in words, gestures, looks. The man does not like if his freedom is suddenly infringed, and, feeling a woman’s intent, he quickly leaves her. If he is no good for a husband, she refuses to meet, and she will never get acquainted with such a man.
Men look at women as a sexual object. If he has thought about what would be good to put this woman in the bed, he puts himself in the stiffness frame – tries to show how wonderful he is. Woman, through man’s talking, manners, and looks, will quickly see through such a man and would leave him (she will lie in a bed with a man with serious intentions).
If there is no thought, he won’t have a desire to get acquainted with a woman, even if she made the first step. When a man gets acquainted with another man or a woman with a woman, they do not think about how to present themselves in a favorable light. They are who they are and they are natural. In general, be sure to read the book from Mirabelle and Amy. I am sure the quality of your communication will improve a lot. You will be irresistible!
Conversation Chemistry by Mirabelle Summers & Amy Waterman