Probably every girl or guy had the period in their life when they heard their loved ones say: “I’m sorry, we have to break up.” All those who heard these words are overwhelmed and shocked by them. Even if they are secretly expecting them, it’s still a sudden thing. And if the girl’s feelings are serious, she’ll try to get her boyfriend back.
First of all, the girl should decide for herself whether she needs to get her ex back. After all, as the saying goes, no matter how you glue a broken cup, the cracks will still remain. In addition, you need to understand why you want to get him back.
If you want to restore your relationship, considering all the errors, and bring it to a completely different level, then yes – go ahead! By the way, it won’t hurt if you thoroughly study the book Ex Recovery System by Ashley Kay. This guide has a unique system of getting your ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend back. It works flawlessly, but only if you can pull yourself together.
If you are driven by quite different motives, for example, you’re just not confident in your abilities and are afraid of being alone, or simply getting your guy back is a stepping stone for revenge, then it’s better not to ask the question of getting your ex back. It’s not worth it.
Once you’re clear with your wishes, analyze your relationship. Why did he leave you, maybe he’s not the only one to blame. Perhaps part of the blame is on you. After all, surely he voiced his concerns before he ended the relationship. But don’t torture yourself – it won’t help you.
Better get all of your mistakes corrected after realizing them. If you really offended him, try to apologize sincerely. But do it, in fact, genuinely. And don’t start another fight, figuring out who’s to blame. Try to use the time wisely, take care of your body and your looks. You need to get others to pay attention to you. To do this, you can get a new hairstyle, learn some new makeup techniques, and update your wardrobe. These actions are necessary in order to get your ex jealous.
You need to show that you not only won’t die without him but rather blossom. These actions if won’t return him to you, then at least will make him pay attention and think whether he hasn’t made a mistake. Besides, it’s easier to start “military” actions to return a “fugitive” surrounded by compliments.
Once you are able to objectively look at reality, first of all, try to establish a friendship with your ex-boyfriend. But don’t impose. Show him that you are his friend and aren’t trying to impose. After all, the minute he feels that you’re pushing him, he’ll go away from you forever. Don’t even try to flirt with him, just stay in the friendship zone: hi, how are you doing.
Many of the girls make one mistake at the beginning of such a friendship: they are trying to show their ex that they are so unhappy. And that they should be sympathized with. Such a trick on your part is not going to work, because he broke up with you to leave you in pain, suffering. In general, without specific knowledge, it’s difficult to get the ex back. I wish you a mutual love! Thank you!